I have to admit I was going to take the rest of the week off from blogging and then I went to lunch and it was beautiful outside. In Dallas, Texas. In July. So I checked the forecast for the holiday weekend and I became giddy. While people in New York and Boston may not understand why I am doing handstands over this, I assure you anybody who has ever spent a July or August in Texas will totally get this:
I am so excited I want to kiss the weather man...it doesn't even matter what weather man.
Ries makes me laugh. I love her.
So one last thing. My therapy is going well. I am moving to extending the appointments to 3 weeks apart. Last night I was telling my therapist how I was feeling better and happily I had decided I was really not interested in dating now. I just am simply tired of being lied to and trusting the wrong guys. I have terrible judgement and the men I think are perfect for me end up nearly destroying me. I just don't know if I am willing to risk ever again. She said something that totally shocked me. She told me that it is fine to take some time off and work on me but when I am ready to date, date someone I am attracted to but who I don't actually like. Let him convince me he is worth it instead of letting him convince me he isn't. Go about it in reverse next time. Since my mom actually didn't like my dad for the 1st year she knew him....this could work. I am never dating again...but it could work. Lol.
Simply,
Laura
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That's some interesting advice. I'd be anxious to see how that works for you. :)
ReplyDeleteDon't be anxious. I don't intend to date for a long time. It is interesting... :-)
DeleteI like her advice... It's a different approach but why not? What do you have to lose? And I like how she wants for him to prove to you that he's worth it... let him work for it girl!
ReplyDeleteI have nothing to lose, especially since I don't intend to let anyone get that close again. Lol
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