Tuesday, November 10, 2015

The Feel Goods have moved in

Live Life Happy

Have you noticed how super sensitive we have become as a society?   Every day on the news there is some group protesting something.  Yesterday it was Starbucks taking Merry Christmas off their cups. Today it is Hello Barbie stealing children's privacy.  

Here are my thoughts on these issues.  I say Merry Christmas.  I believe in Christmas.  I believe in Jesus, God, and yes, I believe in Santa Claus.   If someone else doesn't believe and they respond to me Happy Holidays I am not offended.  That's their choice.  I hate that businesses are forced to be super sensitive to everyone too but I also hate seeing Christmas decorations up in stores in August.  In other words, it's just not that big of a deal.  Nobody dies if Starbucks cups have no saying on them. If your faith is that fragile you don't have much faith anyway.  Tell them Merry Christmas (when it's time.  It's not yet, save it for after Thanksgiving). If you really hate this that much, don't go Starbucks, pay them money for a drink, and tell them your name is Merry Christmas.  You do realize that you support their company when you buy coffee.  It's still your choice.  You don't have to buy Starbucks if it bothers you that much. 

Now about Barbie.   Hello Barbie is being protested by a group worried she steals the privacy of the kids who play with her. Why?  The child says something to the  doll, the comment is sent to the cloud, the computer processes it for a response and sends the answer to the doll.   "Hello Barbie! How are you today?" Barbie "Hi! I am good thanks.  Want to play?"   Now what exactly is your child of Barbie playing age saying that is so significant their privacy is at risk?   Parents who are actually worried about it, just don't buy the doll.  It's not protest worthy.  You have the choice.  

Somewhere along the road in the touchy-freely 80's we started raising a generation of complaining, protesting babies.   

Seriously,  before we got on the 80's psychotherapy train, when we were all told we were "co-dependent",  nobody worried about all this super sensitive stuff. Nobody cared in the 70's that the General Lee had a confederate flag on the roof.  People were too busy enjoying Daisy Duke and Bo and Luke to care.  

Imagine what would have happened in World War II if we had a nation of overly sensitive children going off to fight the war or work the factories.  We would have had people protesting the unethical killing of civilians in France or Germany?  I live about 5 miles from a prisoner of war camp.  Would we have been protesting that as being unfair?  Here is the thing, war isn't fair or kind or pretty and people die. The Germans sure we're not worried about being kind in the concentration camps.  Our soldiers had enough to worry about without a bunch of cry babies protesting the loss of copper for their bracelets to bullet making.   That generation did not complain, they got things done.  They picked themselves up when they fell.  They didn't worry about saying "Merry Christmas!" to someone.  They said it and moved on and they sure didn't care what was on the paper coffee cups.  They were probably Styrofoam anyway because nobody had started protesting that yet....for the environment.   Save a tree people, make your coffee at home and take it with you in a reusable cup that says "Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, Happy Easter, and God Bless America!" 

Monday, November 9, 2015

Manic Monday Four days in photos: My redneck life!



I used to do a blog updated called Mobile Monday where I dumped a bunch of weekend photos in my blog and shared.  Well, my life is a little crazy right now with home, family, trying to get the house refinanced on a 15 year mortgage, work, work, work, and spending weekends doing man stuff so it is much more like a manic than a mobile.  






Friday 
These are the last of the babies.  We moved them outside a week ago and released them to the wilds of the backyard Sunday. 

We have been getting between 9 and 12 eggs a day.  Our smallest older hens should be laying this month so we will have 19 layers.   They don't all lay every single day but we are sort of in egg heaven.  Yes those are green eggs, BTW.

I feel like I should admit that it was pouring rain, dark as sin, and country roads are very hard to drive in those conditions.  By the time the kid and I were packed and leaving for the land, we were also tired from a long day.  So, of course, I missed my turn to our land about 3 times and ended up an hour late getting there.   It was horrible.  Needless to say, there was nothing but sleep when I finally rolled in and unpacked.  

Saturday 

The kid and me in the deer stand snapping selfies of course! 

View from my first deer stand of the day. 

It was an early morning and I had no coffee! 


This is the view from deer stand 2 at sunset. 

I love this photo.  I am planning on printing a couple up to hang in the house. 

Sunday

This is what I like to call my 'bring it on Isis' look.   It was cold Sunday morning but I went out anyway.  

Mostly I took photos, read and slept in the stand.  It was so EARLY!

This is also one of my favorite photos.  Who says you can't get good pictures with an iPhone?

Monday 
I told you a few weeks ago I am in love with Alex and Ani and I have been sporting them for weeks now! 

Monday started off rough.  My new coffee pot isn't working after a week!  There was an accident.  I forgot my work laptop.  Still, I had my wedding boots on and I just don't care.  I love these things.  They are kind of big but I don't have heavy socks on today.  I need them!  Aren't they amazing?


Lest you think I have gone hunting crazy, I still haven't done anything but read in those stands.  Also, I am planning a Waco trip soon to check out Magnolia Silos and shop.   I am not completely lost to the redneck world.

By the way, who else was just annoyed with The Walking Dead last night.  Please just show us what happened to Glen already.   I am so over this hinting but not confirming things, thing.   Next week doesn't appear to be any big reveal either.

So, how was your weekend?  How is your Monday so far?

Wednesday, November 4, 2015

What I'm Loving and Pinning Wed.



I am starting out with What I'm Pinning today because well, because.   You will notice a theme here.  Let me ask you something.  Have you ever had people in your life who insist on creating drama where there is none?  You are just sitting in your office, minding your own business when you are hit by the drama train.   You get up and dust yourself off and think "Who the heck can live like this because this is just STUPID!"   Well that has been my last 2 weeks.   Here are my options:

A. Throw eggs at the people making me crazy because I have a lot of eggs right now.
B. Eat large amounts of left over Halloween candy and go into a chocolate coma.
C. Take up boxing to remove the need to punch someone something.
D. Drink heavily and hope the offending drama queen disappears in the blur.
E. All of the above.

7. Don't let negative people close to you:
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People who thrive on drama don't care about the truth just the mess they create in the wake of all the destruction they leave behind.   Frankly, I am tired of giving them any power.  They just need to take their little drama train somewhere else, or better yet, wake up and stop!
Let go of the people who dull your shine, poison your spirit, and bring you drama. Cancel your subscription to their issues. - Steve Maraboli #quote:
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The hardest thing you may find yourself doing is walking away from the drama queen.  In the end, your peace is worth more than their friendship.  It sucks when you lose a friend  but they choose to be manipulative and who can afford a friendship with a poison friend?  Not me.

"Drama does not just walk into your life. Either you create it, invite it, or associate with it."
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At some point you have to realize that the people who create drama are people you have invited into your life and if you don't eliminate them, you can't complain about them.  

Made this decision a while ago. There are circumstances that I can't avoid toxic people, so I make the best of those moments, smile, then move on. Not going to let those meaningless people stress me out anymore!:
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Meanwhile, I am learning an entirely new appreciation for all my friends who stand by me, support me, stay positive, and who do not create drama and stress!  Those are the keepers!

What I'm Loving:


With these rings, I thee am prepared for Opening Day 2016.   OMG!  Don't you just love this?  I admit I had to do a little work to create this but thanks to a couple of lovely Etsy shops and very little money, I am ready!  Bring on the 2016 Texas Rangers!







My bracelet addiction is full on awesome.  I love these things.  


Okay, so what else am I loving?


*Getting away from madness and going away on the weekend with my husband every now and then.  Even if we are just going hunting and I don't get a shower for 2 days, it is worth it for the tranquility.

*Chats with friends.   It is amazing to me that a couple of my friends just know when I need to talk and pick up the phone or text me.   Gotta love them for being there.

*Eggs.  Seriously, we eat them at least once a week for dinner and a couple days a week for breakfast.  We are now getting anywhere from 10-12 a day so I am going to have to find some creative recipes or start giving them to friends who come over.  "Hi, how are you? Thanks for coming here is your parting gift of eggs."

*My blog friend Military Wife and Pug Life.   Everyday she takes the time out of her busy schedule and makes a comment on my blog.   (Meanwhile I am constantly playing catch up reading with her blog.  It is funny and I read it at night and hope my husband doesn't wake up from my giggling!)  I appreciate her so much.  She is a trooper.   Nobody ever comments on my blog except her.   Truth here, I was telling my husband about getting the chance to meet her (hopefully soon!) and he said, "Is she the one that always comments on your blog?"  I didn't even know he read my blog.  LOL.


*A month of being thankful for November.  I am especially enjoying this because every morning I remember to be thankful for the things and people who make my life good.   It's an awesome reminder.  

That's it for me today.  What are you loving?  Any good pins I need to add?  How do you deal with drama queens?  How do you deal with them when they are kids?


















Tuesday, November 3, 2015

Backyard Chicken farming: What you need to know and why you should do it!

The colors come from the breed.  They all are the same inside. 
Something amazing happened last night.  I came home to a dozen fresh laid eggs.  This might not seem fascinating to everyone but you are just plain WRONG!  This is wonderful!  We have 19 hens currently ready or almost ready to lay eggs.   We won't get more than 1 egg every day to 2 days from them.  To have 12 eggs in one day is AWESOME!  So I thought I would give you some idea of what it is like to be a backyard chicken farmer.

Some of our newest Babies 
These are our youngest chicks.  The White Leghorns above, were just released to the "wild" last week.  My husband calls them the Wild Indians because they are not super friendly.  They are however, not afraid of any Rooster or Hen we have.  Bravehearts! 
Our youngest.  
These are our youngest and they are just a tad bigger than this photo now.  They moved outside last night to outdoor brooder because we are trying to acclimate them to the rest of the flock.   What you have to understand is that chickens really do have a pecking order.

My Roo Charlie and hen Beltre

For example, Charlie above is second in command.  Rooster Rex is the boss.  I named him Rex because roosters are the closest living relative to the T-Rex.   When I first read this (Yes, I read about chickens, a lot!)  I thought how funny.  Chickens are so little.  When we started raising them and I started to watch them, the way they move, the way they behave, I could see it.  They really do have some sort of ancient and wonderful quality about them.  
My Roo Rex, too worried about food to pose. 
Rex is totally the boss.  We got them a week apart and I was worried.  I had read all these horrible things about roosters.  Either we just got really lucky or roosters get a bad rap.  My roosters spent all of 5 minutes jumping over one another and chest bumping (Yes, Roos Chest bump.  No it is not a celebration of a touchdown or some awesome male bonding moment) to determine who was boss. After Rex established himself as the king of the jungle, so to speak, that was it.  They have a lot of hens to pick from and they go about their rooster business of crowing and foraging and watching the flock.   They often are seen sitting on the fence posts next to one another taking turns singing.  Neither of them are terribly noisy.   Now let me say this, Charlie came to us because he is a good crowing Roo.  He isn't terribly loud but I am sure our friends, who live in a subdivision, felt like he was a problem.  This is what happens to a lot of roosters, sadly.   Charlie is just happy as can be on our little acre plus and he doesn't bother anyone.  Both our roosters came from family/friends.  Both adopted quickly to our flock.   Actually, they took a grand total of 1 day to completely feel at home.  That is 1 day between them.  In fact....Charlie and Rex have made friends with the neighbors little bantam rooster.

Neighbors Ducks and chickens 
Actually, truth be told, our neighbors rooster has stayed over night the last two nights and he spends his entire day in our yard so I don't know if our neighbor thinks we chicken napped him or what.  In fact, his ducks come over and spend most of their day in our yard as well.   Come to think of it, so do his hens.   My husband laughs at me because when I get home at night to go collect eggs, chickens come running.  Even if the chickens are in the neighbors yard collecting bugs they see/hear me and come running at full chicken speed.

Alright, so here are a few things you should know about raising chickens and me being totally bias, thinks everyone should have at least 2-3 chickens.  They are amazing creatures, fun to watch, and they give you eggs!  We don't go to movies often, and baseball season is over, so until my husband can get back to the land to hunt, all we do is watch our chickens and laugh.

Here we go:

-You are never going to get rich chicken farming out of your backyard.  Yes, we do sometimes sell our extra eggs.  No we don't charge outrageous prices for the.  We basically look at the price as offsetting the chicken feed slightly.   We aren't trying to make money, just get a little extra to buy more chicken treats. :)

-Chickens are fairly easy to keep once you have some things set up.   You need a brooder (a place to keep baby chicks until they are fully feathered), a coop area, and then you have a decision to make.   If you are in a city and you can keep chickens (many cities now let you, btw),  then you need some place safe for them to roam.   Chickens need some freedom to be happy hens. You need water bowls and feeders.   We had a low cost set-up because my husband was able to get his hands on some free wood so most of what we bought were the hinges and the framing  wood.   You can buy prefab kits for your hens and make one of those fancy coops with chandeliers but you should be aware you are doing that for you.  Our chickens don't care about the coop lighting or paint color.  They know it is a safe place to sleep.  They spend most of the day under our patio deck.  I on the other hand, do care about the coop signs so I have decorated their coop area with a few of my hand painted signs.

-Chickens need a different food as babies than a 6 month old chicken.   Similar to children and puppies, our baby chicks get a fortified feed to protect them.  Once they are about 5-6 months old they will be at the egg laying stage and should have moved off baby chick food and onto layer pellets.

-Chickens have a natural instinct to go home.  Charlie and Rex both figured out where home was the first night.  They went into the coop without any training.   Our first group of chickens took about 2-3 days to figure it out and after that they bedded themselves.  The white leghorns above?  The first day we let them out, they followed the bigger hens and the roosters into the coop.   For the record, they go back to the coop when the light starts to go down.

-Chickens do not subscribe to Daylight Saving Time.  Do you remember that stuff you learned way back when in school about DST being for the farmers so they could get extra time to farm in daylight?  Bunk!  There are no farm animals on this earth who spring forward and fall back.  My chickens have been mad at me the last two days because we fell back and they didn't and they aren't happy waiting for me to let them out an hour later than normal!   You have never seen anything more frightening  amusing than a flock of angry chickens, anxious to get out and forage the yard, coming at your head at 6:45 am.  (I hate DST for the record.  So much so that I actually looked up why we do it and there is honestly not one good reason why.  This sent me off on a Facebook and Twitter tirade yesterday and I refuse to fall back with any clock at the house except my husband's alarm and my coffee pot.   I mean, I need my coffee pot right!)

-Different breeds of chickens, along with laying different colored eggs, will exhibit different personality traits.  Some breeds are calm and friendly and some are...not.   We have a couple of hens that will just jump on our laps now and wait for us to feed them.  Shoot, Red, one of our Rhode Island Reds, doesn't even wait.  She will grab the bread off the table or out of my hand and feed herself.  She is very funny.  Most of our hens actually wait for us to give them the food although pretty much all the hens and even sometimes the roos will eat out of our hand.

Most people have dogs so let me explain it this way,  I have 2 Dachshunds.  Riesling is a Longhair and Sadie is a Wirehair.   When I first got them, I read about traits of the dog. I thought they were crazy telling me different hair lengths made a difference.    Longhair Dachsies tend to be anxious, whine, and get separation anxiety.   I got Ries anyway because who believes that mess?   Then she started to exhibit all those traits.  I took her with me on a stay over with a friend and we went out shopping.  She waited by the door whining for 3 hours...non-stop.   She chewed through electrical cords when I wasn't home.  She tore things up.   So I got Sadie to keep her company.   Now, Wirehair Dachsies are something else.  They are mixed with terriers usually to get the beard effect.  This makes them incredibly hyper and very good hunters.  Sadie is the best little tracker ever.  Unfortunately, it took us months and 3 baby chicks, to get her to understand she can't track the chickens in the backyard because they are not her prey.   (She doesn't get left alone to this day although she pretty much has been taught to ignore them now.)  Ries on the other hand couldn't care less about the chickens because she wants to eat the feed. My dogs are very much typical of their breed and hair length.  


-You will lose some chickens eventually to predators unless you have them completely caged off outside ground to sky.   Chickens have a lot of natural predators including Sadie. Dogs, coyotes, fox, chicken hawks and a number of digging creatures who can tunnel under a fence (the reason I said you have to enclose them top to bottom, floor to sky) will want to eat your chickens.   We know this.  I hate it.  In fact that little rooster of our neighbors that I told you has basically adopted us?  He was almost taken by a chicken hawk a few weeks ago out of our backyard.  My husband had to go out there and yell for 10 minutes to make sure the thing was scared off.   The same neighbor lost a chicken earlier this past summer to a coyote.   Like it or not, and I don't, it is part of the cycle of life.

-Pasture raised chicken eggs, what you get when you let your chickens free-range all day, are the most amazing eggs.   They are richer, creamier, and the yokes are so dark they are nearly orange.   You will want every egg you make to be over easy so you can enjoy those yokes!

-The FDA doesn't really define the designer egg qualities so if you are paying extra for cage free don't kid yourself that you are getting eggs from happy chickens who roam around.  They are most likely sitting in a barn area with little space and it is not a happy place.  Free Range are better but there is no real qualification of how long they have to be outside so most may get left out for an hour or two and may have no access to green grass and space.  What you should buy if you are going to spend that extra money is Pasture Raised.  They have access to the outside all day and they are free...truly free.

-The last thing you should know about chicken raising is that you may feel guilty when you make a winner, winner chicken dinner.   I swear to you every time I fry chicken I look at hubs and kid and say..."Now don't let the chickens see you eating this.  I don't want them to worry."  We won't eat our chickens.  That isn't what we are raising them for.   Some people do "cull" their flock.  I can't do it.  My chickens will live until they don't live and that is that.  I love my feathered babies and I can't imagine sitting down to dinner and looking at a plate full of Cinderella, Katniss, or Snow White.


Guilty!!! 
But SERIOUSLY, my fried chicken, my husband's favorite livers, mashed potatoes, and gravy are stinking good.

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